Showing posts with label choice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label choice. Show all posts

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Sunday, 8 April 2018

Don't dream your life , Live your dream. New motivational video. Speeche...



This video is very powerful and extremely motivating.  It has a strong language but it's really great and will help you shape your life for the better!  Please let me know if you like it!

Sunday, 1 April 2018

DO IT NOW , Sometimes "Later" Becomes "Never" - Motivational Video for 2...



This video will motivate you to stand up and be counted. It will make you rethink your future, you can achieve more if you rethink and believe in yourself!  Please let me know if you like it or not!

Sunday, 25 March 2018

This Is Why Not Reaching Your Goals May Help You Fulfil Your Destiny


Unexpected Twists and Turns
To a woman who complained about her destiny, the Master said: "It is you who makes your destiny."
"But surely I am not responsible for being born a woman?"
"Being born a woman isn't destiny. That is fate. Destiny is how you accept your womanhood and what you make of it."
Anthony de Mello evokes the essence of your destiny coinciding with fate when you are attentive to it.
We are born with the seed of potential within us. Some are called to awaken their potential through fate or destiny while others have it thrust upon them.
I'm reminded of the tale depicting the unending search for wisdom outside of us when it waits to be discovered within.
The Creator of the universe gathered all of creation and asked: "I want to hide something from the humans until they are ready for it. It is the realisation they create their own reality."
"Tell me where I can hide this wisdom so they will never find it."
The eagle replied: "Hide it beyond the furthest star. They will not find it there."
"Not so, said the buffalo. One day man will learn to fly and find his wisdom in the furthest galaxies. Hide it on the floor of the sea and they will never find it."
"Not so, said the wise bear. One day humans will learn to swim to the bottom of the ocean and find their wisdom there. Hide it deep within man, for he will never think to search for it there."
So the Creator did precisely that. He hid the wisdom of life deep within mankind.
The quest to fulfil one's goals and dreams is a journey many go in search of. Whilst there is no roadmap marking the route, you must take a leap of faith and trust your journey is following in the right direction.
However, along the path, you may encounter unexpected twists and turns that look like you have lost your way, when in fact you are exactly where you need to be.
Your Destiny Calling
I revealed in earlier articles how I studied to become a menswear designer at university and spent time in Italy before my course was transformed.
Within the years that followed, I went from fashioning fabrics to writing and speaking about self-empowerment because I felt a pull to explore this path. I had little experience as a writer and speaker, yet everything fell into place as I moved forward.
What I experienced at the time is best depicted in the quote by the American novelist Wendell Berry who said: "It may be that when we no longer know what to do, we have come to our real work, and when we no longer know which way to go, we have begun our real journey."
What I thought was my ambition to be a successful designer soon became a distant fantasy.
I was asked in the years that followed whether I missed working in design. Frankly no, because my time as a designer had run its course and I was excited about my exploring life as a writer and speaker.
Does that mean you shouldn't chase your goals and dreams? Certainly not. My goal was to become a designer working in Europe and by that account, I fulfilled my ambition until life had other plans.
Author Alan Cohen said: "Every choice before you represents the universe inviting you to remember who you are and what you want."
In pursuing your goals, you may encounter adversity and hardship. However, challenges may be your destiny calling.
I don't know and neither will you until you step into it.
One thing is for certain, if your world is falling apart, it may be a sign your previous life is collapsing to give way for the new life to develop.
Embrace the Journey
There's a Japanese Haiku that reads: "I have always known that at last, I would take this road, but yesterday I did not know that it would be today."
There is no certainty in life when faced with these intersections and the sole guidance to draw on will be hope and faith. Hope you will overcome the pain and faith your new life will fall into place better than expected.
It was the French author André Gide who wrote: "You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore."
You must go forth in the direction you are called, for that is the greatest act of courage you can undertake. It signifies your willingness to trust in the unfolding of your life's narrative.
You are never presented with circumstances you cannot overcome because the seed of potential has been implanted within you.
Whilst it may not appear that way when you move forward with conviction, the path will reveal itself, but not a moment sooner.
If it seems your goals are out of reach, you may be progressing more than you realise, but not in a linear direction.
The universe comprises many moving parts. What looks untenable now is nothing more than life orchestrating the pieces of the puzzle so your life comes together as it should.
However, if you look intently at the chaos, you are likely to think circumstances are not unfolding in your favour. They are, but not in the way you think.
For now, follow the trail and embrace the journey while making the most of it.
Take the road less travelled and follow it with openness, knowing it might lead you to fulfil your destiny sooner than you realise.


Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/9810606

Saturday, 10 March 2018

The Best Motivation Video 2015 - POWER OF CHOICE



This is a great video about choice.  Well we all know that choice is about life, we change and make decisions based on choice!  Wow,  please let me know if you like it!

Sunday, 4 March 2018

DIFFICULT DECISIONS ARE SOMETIMES DIFFICULT TO UNDO




 We become so conscious on identifying the best option because we cannot afford to risk a wrong decision. However, we failed to realize the importance of ensuring that any decision we make turns out right. We overly emphasized on the choices we make instead on everything that follows.
By merely choosing the best option available for does not warrant that things will turn our right in the long run. We should focus on what will happen next if we select this choice. By doing so, a given decision made will be determine if it is right or wrong. Our sense of agency and ownership is diminished once we focused too much on the right decision. On the contrary, focusing on the effort that will be required after our decision not only helps us see the means by which any choice might succeed, it also restores our sense of agency and reminds us that while randomness plays a role in every outcome, our sense of control resides in our daily activities more than in our one-time decisions.
We should simply not allow our emotions to choose for us. We might regret later. Though emotions are important input into decision-making; but it will most likely lead to a negative outcome and focusing our attention on the options likely to lead to a positive outcome. That's the reason why too many people commit the same mistakes over and over again. They let their emotions rule their rational thinking. In the end, they suffer the consequence of their wrong decisions.
Some people who have difficulty in making choices. They are afraid of the risks of making the wrong decision. They have trouble making decisions because they fear of making mistakes. They do not want to be wrong but the trouble is they worry too much, they are blinded to see that it should be the other way around. When they make a decision, they should exert every effort they have to turn it right no matter what happens.
What it means to have too many choices is that it also varies. Some people are overwhelmed by choosing between two things. Others can have an almost endless options but it also depends on what the choice is. Making decisions is sometimes making a commitment to a choice and sticking with it, but often there is an opportunity to find out something new if we only allow ourselves to have a room for improvement. Having an opportunity to find out something can make decisions fun.
Just bear in mind, "We cannot always make the right decision, but we can make every decision right by being objective and rational."
Some people have trouble with making decisions because they have trouble setting priorities. The sad thing is, it's difficult to teach people how to make the right decision because of their poor judgment or lack of insight.


Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/9895213



Wednesday, 28 February 2018

Will Smith talking about his success mindset and personal development!






This a great video and it had thousands and thousands of views!  I like The Alchemist by Paolo Coelho, a brilliant book. You should read if you have not yet read it!  This video and the book could make you reassess your mindset!! Let me know if you like it!!

Thursday, 1 February 2018

MORNING MOTIVATION - Wake Up and Win The Day! BEST MOTIVATIONAL VIDEO FO...


This is an excellent video to listen to first thing in the morning.  I have listened to this video so many times.  You might find it useful in your quench to develop yourself!!  Please let me know!!